inspirational story of personal growth and forgiveness

10 Year Anniversary Of "The Up-Side Of Down"

Michael Carini signature icon and Acrylic Alchemy quote

Today marks the 10 year anniversary of the assault and battery that led to the birth of "Acrylic Alchemy" and, ultimately, the man I have become. I know this may not be my prettiest picture...though possibly close...but this is real life. Multiple facial fractures, severe eye trauma, and a concussion, this assault and battery was the catalyst for my series "The Up-Side of Down." This teachable moment also breathed life into my signature Carini Arts icon, the image I saw flashing through my head during my concussive state. Some see it as a tree and others see it as a nerve or synapses firing. Both are accurate as it represents life growing from death and creating your own light in times of darkness.


This was a life changing experience that taught me forgiveness and inspired me to share my stories with others that are struggling with various issues in their own lives. The person on the other side of this colorful experience was not a bad person. Sometimes in life there are misunderstandings. Sometimes in life people make horrible mistakes. If I was ever to commit an egregious offense, my hope is that someone would show me the same forgiveness for my transgressions. We're all human. We're all fallible. We all make mistakes. When life punches you in the face a few dozen times you have to roll yourself over, spit out the blood, and pick yourself up. You may not always have someone there to pick you. There may be times you have to do it yourself. I refuse to let anyone or anything hold me down and I will fight until the very last breath. Perhaps I'm fighting for me. Perhaps I'm fighting for you. All I know with certainty is that I'm always fighting for something and someone. I'm a fighter. It's in my blood. You can see that in this photo.


Michael Carini assault and battery


I have made full amends with the gentleman on the other side of this colorful experience. It was important to me that I do so in the very same place the incident occurred (my living room) because you have to face your traumas and obstacles head on. I also gave his daughter one of the paintings that rose from this empowering experience. I believe "The Limit Of Infinite Possibility" was the perfect piece to serve as a symbol of hope and growth. I wouldn't be the man I am today and many of the things I have accomplished never would have happened if not for this day in my history. I hold no ill will towards him and had already forgiven him when I was asking to take my prom picture in the hospital, doing my best to make light of a difficult situation. It actually bothers me when people speak poorly of him because he's just a man that made a mistake. We all do. It also bothers me when people refer to it as a "beating" because I was never beaten. You aren't beaten until you accept defeat. I will never accept defeat and will never be beaten. Life happens. Laugh it off. Keep fighting though. Always keep fighting. Share your struggles. Empower others. Forgive. Love.



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This is unbelievable story, God has given you what many of us wish we had, power and strength to forgive others is not always easy. You have beautiful heart and I hope to someday meet you in person. Thank you for sharing, there’s no doubt in my mind that this will help others. Peace be with you always. 🙏🏻❤️🥰


The details of your attack are your own business. It’s brave of you to pull yourself out of the other side of this incident and gain a humble outlook of what happened. You could have carried that anger and let it twist you into something you couldn’t face in the mirror. Telling this story must have been uncomfortable and necessary.

Lish Bit

Wow!!! Sometimes in life we have to take roads that are difficult and hard in order to get to where our soul purpose is . I am taken back by such wise words that you spoke. It’s not good to hold hate in your heart and I am so glad you were able to forgive for your own souls purpose. A lot times people carry this hate in them and it just eats away at them . I am glad you found your purpose with showing your emotions through your artwork . Such positive messages and inspiration flow through these beautiful pieces. Continue to let your emotions flow through your paintbrush because you are giving hope and inspiration to so many people. You never know what someone has went through or is going through and just by looking at your work can give them direction for interpretation in there own life! Keep spreading the positive vibes and love. ❤️


First off I just wanna say how beautiful your art work is and I can’t wait to own a piece of ur work and second I wanna ask about ur attack what was it over or why did he attack u ? You said it was in ur home but how did he get in


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